A Staten Island woman, Blanche Scala, 59, died from blunt trauma to the head after her husband, Thomas Scala, 57, beat her for not paying for cable TV while he was hospitalized and for not visiting him at the hospital. It is suspected that an ashtray, which was thrown at the wife’s head, is what caused her death. When the woman packed her clothes and tried to escape their home, her husband filled them with rubbing alcohol and used hairspray to set them on fire where she burned her hands trying to put out the flames. After being treated, the deceased wife tried to go to sleep that night and complained to her friend about nausea and headaches. The husband had admitted to family members that he had hit his wife. The husband has been charged with assault and criminal mischief for the alleged attack. However, he could face a murder charge for this event. Read More.
According to the New York State Office for the prevention of Domestic Violence (NYSODV), it is not always easy to recognize abuse, even for victims themselves. The NYSODV has posted some factors to help you figure out if there is abuse in your relationship:
• Your partner does things that make you afraid.
• Your partner does things to control you.
• Your partner threatens to hurt you.
• Your partner physically abuses you.
• If you think this publication might be for you, please keep reading. As you do, remember:
• You are not alone.
• You are not to blame.
• You do not deserve to be abused.
• There is help available.
• This publication is also for you if you know someone who is being abused or someone you think might be being abused by their partner. You will find information on how you can help a friend, family member, co-worker, neighbor, or acquaintance, including:
• How to talk to them about the abuse.
• How you can be prepared to help.
• How to help them get support and services.
Additionally some important facts about domestic violence according to the NYSODV include:
• 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence in their lifetime. (Tjaden, Patrica and Thoennes, Nancy. National Institute of Justice and the Centers of Disease Control and Prevention, “Extent, Nature, and Consequences of Intimate Partner Violence.” 2000). http://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/nij/181867.pdf)
• Almost 1/3 of all female homicides victims in the United States were killed by their intimate partner. (Bureau of Justice Statistics, “Intimate Partner Violence in the United States.” December 2007).
• Approximately 450,000 domestic incidents are reported annually to police departments in NYS. (DCJS Domestic Incident Report Data, 2001-2002).
• Only about 48% of all violent victimizations, in 2003, were reported to police (Bureau of Justice Statistics, National Crime Victimization Survey, “Criminal Victimization, 2003.” September 2004).
• 84% of adults believe that domestic violence is a problem in the United States. (Harris International. “Majority of U.S. Adults Think Domestic Violence is a Serious Problem in the United States Today.” June 2006). http://www.harrisinteractive.com
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